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10 Money Steps to Take When Someone in the Family is Facing a Serious Health Crisis

Posted By Marty Higgins | February 25th, 2010

A June 2009 article in the American Journal of Medicine reported that medical bills are behind more than 60 percent of U.S. personal bankruptcies, adding that more than 75 percent of these bankrupt families had health insurance but still were overwhelmed by their medical debts.

The article, based on research from Harvard Law School, Harvard Medical School and Ohio University, underscores how a single health crisis can financially destroy both individuals and families. It is information that underscores the need for adequate planning ahead of any health crisis, particularly when known risk factors exist in a family. A financial expert such as a CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER™ professional can help individuals determine if their insurance and savings options are adequate to handle the possibility of any future health crisis.

If you have time to prepare, most financial planners will advise:

  • Creation of an adequate emergency fund to cover several months (usually a minimum of three months and, even better, up to a year) of family expenses if a patient can’t work during their treatment;
  • Purchase of separate disability insurance to pay everyday expenses since company-bought disability coverage will likely be limited – the benefits on any individual policy need to be coordinated with the group policy;
  • Creation of health care advance directives, health care powers of attorney and financial powers of attorney, health care proxies (each state has a “preferred” document that is accepted; clients need to execute the form for their state of residence) and DNR forms among the examples.
  • Building lists of critical phone numbers, major assets and where information on each can be found on investment accounts and other key information in case the person is incapacitated;
  • Communicate funeral plans to family members in writing so that wishes can be implemented in the event of death. Even better, complete a personal death awareness document that covers both the practical aspects of death and the interior emotional aspects of death.

But if you’re suddenly faced with a frightening, expensive and potentially life-threatening diagnosis without such preparation, here are some basic steps to take:

Start by realizing it’s not all about the money: If you or someone you love is sick, obtain the best care possible, not what your bank account and health insurance can buy.  A CFP® professional with experience in dealing with healthcare issues can help you assess your financial situation against various goals for retirement, your expenses, your children’s education and other matters.


Grill the patient’s insurance agent or HR person: If you or family members have bought health insurance through an agent or your employer, insist that they explain exactly what the plan covers and where your deductibles do and don’t apply. Generally, a serious illness will quickly use up the deductible (this is where your emergency fund is important). Pay attention to how much the insurance will pay and how much you’ll pay out of pocket once the deductible is exhausted.

Check on experimental treatment and see how it will affect coverage: If the diagnosis is cancer or some other potentially life-threatening illness, in addition to tried and true treatments, research medical centers offering clinical trials. And, keep in mind that some insurance plans might look askance at certain treatments that could potentially lead to other health issues. Err toward caution in these matters, but if the insurer approves, see if such experimental treatment can get you a break on costs.

Get those directives in order: A health care advance directive is a formal, preferably notarized instruction sheet for doctors to follow in case you or family members are incapacitated. The most commonly known health care directive is a do-not-resuscitate (DNR) order. A health care power of attorney designates a particular individual — a spouse, a friend, an adult child — to carry out your medical wishes if you are incapacitated. Meanwhile, financial powers of attorney designate an individual to handle financial affairs if the sick or deceased are single or did not designate joint tenants for certain assets. Again, each state follows a particular set of documents.

If there isn’t a will or a complete estate plan, make one: A will doesn’t have to be enormously detailed to relieve problems for survivors, but it can create enormous problems if it doesn’t exist. If there is no executed will, the estate is intestate, which means that property is distributed by state laws. Yet it makes even more sense to review all of a patient’s assets to determine if more detailed directives are necessary and most important, to make sure beneficiaries on insurance, retirement accounts and other investments are up to date.

Consider whether you can make monetary support a gift: It’s good to get tax and financial advice on making a one-time gift to support the patient. Would the potential loss of money injure you, and worse, will it injure the relationship? If you don’t think you will be repaid would you be willing to consider it a gift?

Ask for generics and samples: Many physicians are willing to recommend a generic substitute or at least supply you with a few samples of the drug they’re already prescribing. While doctors can’t get away with passing sample drugs to all their patients, always ask. As long as they are prescribing the medication, samples with the proper dosage can provide cost savings to patients.

Begin negotiations before there’s a financial problem: The best time to speak with hospital bean counters isn’t when you’re behind on your payments. Once a diagnosis is made, either you or someone you designate as your agent needs to contact the hospital business office to check on payment schedules and possible discount plans if you are uninsured or fear your insurance may not cover a significant portion of costs. Any creditor appreciates a customer who’s willing to come to the table first.

February 2010 — This column is produced by the Financial Planning Association, the membership organization for the financial planning community, and is provided by Martin V Higgins, CFP , a local member of FPA.

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Love and Money: Is a Postnuptial Agreement Right for You and Your Spouse?

Posted By Marty Higgins | February 9th, 2010

Valentine’s Day might not be the best time to focus on money, but some married couples are taking the unusual step of re-setting the clock on money issues both good and bad with a legal document called a postnuptial agreement.

A postnuptial agreement is a contract between spouses. It is similar to a prenuptial agreement except it is signed during marriage to protect assets in case of divorce or separation.

Prenuptial agreements get plenty of press when high-profile divorces happen, such as the media frenzy over golfer Tiger Woods and his marital troubles. But postnups can be seen more positively as a reset button to accommodate wealth that’s accumulated since the marriage or as a way to add transparency and correct past money behaviors that were tearing the marriage asunder. In some cases, this kind of “divorce planning” might actually create harmony in a relationship

Under what circumstances are postnups written? Triggers could include:

  • One partner — or both – handling money poorly. A postnup might be used to force full disclosure on both sides and establish a new system for managing money responsibly in the future.
  • The building of a significant business or other acquisition of sizable assets. A postnup could be part of an overall financial and estate review for a couple that’s worked hard to start a business together or inherited wealth. They might want to set certain protections in place that weren’t in existence when the couple married or started the business.

Postnups can be expensive to arrange. Both sides generally need to engage separate legal counsel to review the legality of the document as well as coordinate with accountants and tax and estate attorneys. They may even delve significantly into business operations as well, requiring an examination of strategy of valuation and succession planning.

If you and your spouse are considering whether a postnuptial agreement is right for you, it makes sense to talk with a trained financial expert first, such as a CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER™ professional. If the problem is money, it’s best to talk through options with an objective professional who handles financial planning for a living. It might be possible to work out those issues without a need for a document that will take significant expense to produce due to the need for attorneys as well as tax and estate professionals.

Some common questions to ask in preparation of a postnuptial agreement:

What problem are we trying to fix or what behavior are we trying to change? This is the central question when trying to remake a financial life. A CFP® professional can help a couple determine the root causes for the financial issues they’re facing and determine how much support they really need. A CFP® professional can help both sides come to the table with disclosure of debt, assets and other business, employment and investment issues of relevance.

What about our families? Minor and adult children are part of any new financial agreements you make during your marriage. If there’s a family business at stake, there needs to be a discussion about how a postnuptial agreement will affect a split of assets that might affect their future inheritance or career options. There may be alimony and other support arrangements already in place for ex-spouses and children from earlier marriages as well as elderly parents to support. All of these financial requirements need to be part of the discussion.

Is there debt? And if so, how much? If one or both sides in the marriage have been hiding this information, disclosure is part of the process. Both sides must be willing to reveal their savings, investments and debt figures – every dime. Both should start the process of talking about how that debt should be paid off – by the person who accrued it, or by both potential spouses. Couples also need to decide how they will handle debt going forward – jointly or separately.

Are there investments? Again, this might be a disclosure issue, particularly if one or both sides are hiding assets or simply have lost track of them. There might also be wide differences on how investments should be managed and even what types of investments are appropriate.

What about the business? If one or both spouses run their own companies or partnerships and there has never been a serious effort at succession or estate planning, all of these efforts need to be linked. If there is a fear that the marriage may fail, both sides may want to have a plan in place for disposition or purchase of the assets. This is particularly necessary if the goal is to keep the company in the hands of the founding family so those assets can be passed on to the next generation.

What about everyday expenses? If one or both sides believe that certain expenses are a burden, it’s time to talk about reallocating responsibilities. This might be as simple as consolidating bank accounts in both names so there’s transparency over everyday finances.

What about insurance? Life, health, home, and disability – all coverage that singles hold separately needs to be reviewed and consolidated to make sure that coverage is adequate going forward.

What about our estates? There should be separate wills and supporting documents on who will get what investments, personal and business assets with updated beneficiaries – particularly when children from first marriages are involved. This new look at finances might benefit from an examination of various trust agreements to protect and direct assets for future generations, particularly for blended families or families that might blend after a breakup.  And no matter how young or old the couple, healthcare directives need to be made.

What about retirement? Retirement discussions go beyond money. Couples should decide how they want to live in retirement, whether they’ll continue to work and how they’ll deal with illness. This is a particularly important discussion if one spouse is significantly older than the other and may retire years ahead.

When done correctly, a postnuptial agreement can benefit both spouses. The very process of working on this arrangement can be a positive exercise for many couples.  Whether or not the marriage ends in a divorce, couples can breathe easier knowing they can protect what they each own.

February 2010 — This column is produced by the Financial Planning Association, the membership organization for the financial planning community, and is provided by Martin V Higgins,CFP , a local member of FPA.

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